“People change, things change, time changes, priorities change, but expectations always remain the same”
With changing situations in our lives, nothing clearly remains permanent in our life. It is hard to have our childhood friends still in our contact as they were earlier. In the hectic lives of ours, the goals also change as well. We shift to a new place, make new friends and forget the old friends and it becomes difficult to be in touch with our old friends and when we meet our old friends we begin to feel that so much has changed over the years
It is quite likely that we may feel like completely disassociated with the person, the way they think, the way they see the world is completely different from what it used to be earlier. There also occurs thoughts like if we had met the person this way; we probably may not be even friends with them. So there happens a dilemma whether we should cut off our friends in such a situation.
So if you have also felt the same and thinking about closing that chapter of your life forever you need to keep in mind the following things before taking this decision of your life.
1. What really matters at the end of the day is what the other person thinks about you. Is the person concerned about you? Does the person still care for you as earlier? If the answer is yes for all of these you should definitely not ever think about breaking the friendship.
2. Also, it is really not necessary that you have to be very close to everyone in your life. You can have some friends in your life, who are your friends, they can be just friends. Right?
3. Apart from that our childhood friends are the most precious memories of our lives. So you would not want to end it on the bitter note. So it is advisable that you don’t break off completely.
4. Also, you don’t want to have that guilt for your entire life if something happens with them and you were not there for them when they actually needed you. So never cut off them completely.
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